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Introducing a secondary settler
This guide will walk you through every step to help get your partner or another secondary settler to settle your little to sleep.
You may just want a little support around naps, the occasional bedtime, or you'd like to work towards an equal split when it comes to settling. Whatever your goal, this guide has everything you need. 
It’s extremely comprehensive which means you can pick and choose how much you wish to embark on, and move at a pace that works for your family.
Parental preference, or the struggles of settling being solely on one person, is one of the most common issues I come across on Instagram and in my 1:1 support. Therefore, I’m so excited to have an accessible and immediately downloadable guide ready for you all.

Introducing a secondary settler

£25.00Price

  • UNDERSTANDING

    • From day 1
    • Parental preference
    • Attachment theory
    • Timing
    • Change

    COMMUNICATION

    • Getting on the same page
    • Trust
    • Plan

    PREPARATION

    • Calm and co-regulation
    • Connection
    • For older littles
    • Routine and joint settling

    THE ROUTE

    • Naps
    • Bedtime
    • Night wakes

    PRACTICE

    • Settling
    • Other ways to help
    • Other caregivers

    FAQs

     

What families say

This gentle night weaning guide is just what I have been looking for! It is full of useful information to help your little one gently and supportively wean from night-time feeds. The advice is straight-forward with a lot of different options to help you navigate the process. Not only does Lucy offer night-weaning advice, she also makes you feel supported and confident in your own decision-making! Thank you for this fantastic guide!

I bought Lucy’s ‘making changes to settling’ guide & webinar, and have followed her on Instagram since soon after my son was born and I am so so glad I found her. I fed my son to sleep for 8 months (which I absolutely loved, and Lucy’s page validated that I didn’t have to feel guilty about it if it was working for us) and once I was ready to stop doing this, I bought her guide and we have managed to move to a little song and cuddle before sleeping in such a loving and gentle way. My son is my first, and I think so many FTMs end up doing the CIO because we’re told that’s all that works but I am so so glad I found Lucy’s account and we have had such a beautiful, connecting and healthy sleep journey, without the stress of strict schedules and leaving a bub to cry alone! I would highly recommend it to anyone who wants to make changes to sleep, or implement some top tips that really help with sleep (for the whole family!) without having to do CIO!

Just wanted to say a huge thanks for the confidence and help you’ve given us through your guide (Cot and floor bed). For the first time in 8 months I have my arms free in the evenings and I can eat a meal with two hands - go to the loo when I want - get up when I want - it’s all the little things you take for granted. My little boy has adjusted so well to being in his own cot in his nursery in just a week we’re in shock. Going from only contact naps and co sleeping. The change is honestly astounding and I’m so glad I read your guide - it just gave us all the practical info, prep and confidence to just give it a go without feeling the pressure or like we’d fail if it didn’t work first time (I really didn’t think it would). It’s made me a better mum and benefited my mental health so much - so huge thanks to you!!

My husband and I have been reflecting on how different bedtime is since we bought the Introducing A Secondary Settler guide last month. Our 21 month old no longer cries with Daddy and is more than happy to do bedtime with either one of us. I still breastfeed to sleep but he has found his own way. She sleeps just as well either way and it’s really helped build their bond too. Thank you so much from all of us.

I have followed Lucy on instagram for a while now, and purchased her Toddler Sleep webinar and Night weaning guide to help make changes to my little ones sleep. I find Lucy’s approach very considerate of little ones needs, thinking of ways to support them and always looking at their individual circumstances and personalities before making changes. I truly believe this helped us make changes with minimal upset and helped my LO adapt very quickly. It has been game changing for us, thank you so much Lucy, would highly recommend!

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